Breathwork is a broad term for practices that deliberately change how you breathe. Different approaches use different rhythms, depths and patterns, and they do not all produce the same effect.
The work I facilitate is conscious connected breathwork. It is fully guided, done lying down, and paired with an intention you set at the start.
What nervous system regulation means
Regulation is not calm. It is not being relaxed all the time, and it is not never getting angry.
Regulation is flexibility. It is the ability of your body to increase activation when something requires it, and to settle again afterwards. Both directions matter. A system that cannot mobilise is as limited as one that cannot come down.
What your nervous system is doing
Underneath conscious thought, your body is continuously assessing your environment and adjusting you to meet it. Heart rate, breathing, muscle tension and where your attention goes are all part of that adjustment. It happens faster than thinking, and mostly outside your awareness.
When a demand is temporary, activation is useful. Heart rate increases, attention narrows, more energy becomes available. When the demand passes, a flexible system settles again.
Difficulty arises when demands are frequent, prolonged, or have accumulated over years. The system becomes more likely to read situations as threatening, and slower to return to a settled state. Over time it may stop returning fully, and that becomes the baseline.
You can function in this state. You can work, parent, run a household and meet your responsibilities. That is part of why it often continues for a long time before anything is done about it. What people usually notice first is tiredness that sleep does not resolve.
Regulation is therefore not simply another outcome to pursue. It is the condition in which other kinds of change become more accessible.
How can breathing affect the nervous system?
Breathing is unusual in that it operates automatically and can also be controlled deliberately. This makes it one of the few direct points of access to a system that otherwise runs below conscious reach.
Breathing interacts with heart rate and with the automatic systems that regulate arousal. Research into slow and controlled breathing has found changes in measures such as heart rate variability, along with reductions in stress and anxiety in a number of studies.
What the evidence does and does not show
The research on breathing and stress is promising but still developing. Different breathing practices are not interchangeable and should not be treated as though they produce the same effects.
No breathing pattern cures anything, and a single session does not permanently reset your nervous system. Claims of that kind go further than the evidence supports.
What can reasonably be said is that breathing provides a practical way to influence your physiological state in the present moment, and that a change in state changes what is available to you while it lasts.
Why we work with an intention
Breathing on its own will settle your system. That is worth having. On its own, it usually functions as a temporary reset.
What extends the value is giving the session a direction. Before breathing, you identify what you would like to be different. This is not goal setting, and it is not something to be resolved in one session. It gives the session a meaningful focus.
Many people want a particular change while another part of them responds to that change as unsafe. Someone may want to be more visible and withdraw when attention arrives. Someone may want a difficult conversation and become defensive during it. Someone may want to take on larger work and avoid starting it.
This is not usually a lack of motivation or information. The direction is associated with exposure, uncertainty or previous experience that the body has recorded as risky. Working with an intention allows you to encounter that direction from a more settled state, where different responses become more accessible.
What happens in a session?
Every session is fully guided and no previous experience is required.
At the start you identify what is present for you and what you would like the session to support. I explain the process, and then guide you into the breathing. Your only task during the breathing is to follow the guidance and stay curious about what you notice.
People respond differently. You may experience emotion, physical sensation, memory, clarity, or a straightforward sense of quiet. None of these is a required sign that the session has worked.
Time for reflection afterwards is part of the session rather than an addition to it, which is why I ask people to bring something to write with. The point is not only to have an experience, but to notice what emerged and what it might make possible.
Do you need a dramatic experience?
No. Some people experience strong emotion during breathwork and many do not. The value of a session is not measured by intensity.
A quieter session may be more useful than an intense one. You might notice that you can consider a difficult conversation without the same physical tension, or recognise a pattern that was hard to see while you were inside it.
What breathwork may support
These are not guaranteed outcomes, and not from a single session. They are what people commonly report over time.
- Recovering more quickly after a difficult event
- Noticing activation earlier, while there is still something you can do about it
- Remaining present in difficult conversations rather than shutting down or escalating
- Resting without needing to justify it first
- Feeling less braced in ordinary situations
- Moving towards something that matters with less internal resistance
One session, or an ongoing practice?
A single session can produce a meaningful change in how you feel and what you notice, sometimes for several days. A temporary change of state and a lasting change are not the same thing.
Lasting regulation is supported by what happens repeatedly. How you breathe, sleep, move and recover, and what you do when circumstances become difficult. Breathwork can be a significant part of that, particularly when what surfaces in a session is applied afterwards.
Is breathwork safe?
Breathwork is not appropriate for every person or every health condition, and the way it is guided matters.
If you are pregnant, or you have a heart condition, epilepsy, high blood pressure, glaucoma or a psychiatric diagnosis, contact me before booking so we can determine whether it is appropriate, and consult your doctor if you are uncertain.
This is a wellbeing and educational practice. It is not medical treatment, psychotherapy or crisis support.
If you have ADHD
Stress affects an ADHD system differently, and the usual advice about meditation often does not work for reasons that have nothing to do with effort. I have written about that separately: breathwork and ADHD.
I am Lucine Setian. I trained through The School of Breathwork and hold the International Certificate of Breathwork Mastery, a two year training completed in 2023. I am a member of the International Breathwork Foundation and the Australian Breathwork Association, and I have facilitated at the Sydney Opera House in 2024 and 2025.
If you would like to try it
The next in person session is a half day retreat at The Barn in Mosman. Ninety minutes of guided breathwork, with time to settle beforehand and time to reflect afterwards. No previous experience is required.